Shirt Collars: The Ultimate Guide for the Modern Man

In the world of men's wardrobe, the shirt collar is much more than a simple detail: it embodies elegance, personality, and craftsmanship.

At Bexley, each shirt is designed to enhance the silhouette of the discerning man who values refinement and timeless style. This guide will help you understand the importance of the collar, explore the different types, their uses and characteristics, and learn how to choose the ideal shirt collar style based on your body shape, the occasion, and your personal taste.

1. Why is choosing a shirt collar essential for your style?

Its impact on the overall look of a shirt

The collar shapes the shirt and draws attention to the face. It defines the balance of the outfit, whether formal or casual. A well-chosen collar enhances the build, refines facial features, and adds character to the whole. Each collar is designed to offer a harmonious silhouette, in line with Bexley's timeless elegance.

How it influences the silhouette and your style identity

The collar acts as a true style tool: it can elongate, broaden or refine the silhouette depending on its shape and spread. An Italian collar, for example, visually broadens the shoulders, while an officer collar adds a contemporary touch. Choosing the right collar allows you to express your personality while respecting the codes of elegance. It’s a detail that makes all the difference in expressing your style identity.


2. The different types of collars offered by Bexley

Men's shirt with French collar

French collar: classic and timeless

The French shirt collar, with its close-set points and moderate height, is a safe choice for all formal occasions. It pairs perfectly with a slim tie or a bow tie. Bexley's French collar shirt impresses with its precise cut and quality finish.


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Men's shirts with Italian collar

Italian collar: elegance and openness

The Italian shirt collar stands out for its wide opening and spread points. It is ideal for narrow or elongated faces, as it balances proportions and highlights larger tie knots. This collar embodies modernity and poise while staying true to a classic spirit. Choosing a men’s Italian collar shirt at Bexley means opting for the perfect blend of tradition and innovation.


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Men's shirts with American collar

American collar: relaxed yet structured

The American collar, or “button-down”, is recognizable by its small buttoned tabs. It adds a touch of casual chic while maintaining an elegant structure. This collar can be worn without a tie for a sophisticated casual look, but it also accommodates a slim tie. At Bexley, the American collar shirt symbolizes versatile style.


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Men's shirts with officer collar

Officer collar: minimalism and modernity

The officer collar stands out with its straight, short, band-style design. It embodies minimalism and modernity, offering an elegant alternative to traditional collars. It suits all body types and adds a discreet touch of originality to your outfit. Discover our officer collar shirt models — a unique blend of comfort and style.


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3. How to choose the ideal collar based on your body type?



Round or elongated face: finding the perfect harmony

For a round face, choose a collar with a moderate opening, such as the French collar, which subtly elongates the features. The Italian collar, with its wider spread, is perfect for slim or elongated faces. The key is to avoid extremes: a wide collar on a round face can visually disrupt the balance of the silhouette.


Short or long neck: adapting your choice

The height of the collar affects how the neck is perceived. A low and open collar, like the Italian collar, enhances a short neck. Conversely, for a longer neck, opt for taller collars like the French collar to center the focus. The officer collar, with its moderate height, remains a neutral choice.

Creating an elegant silhouette through the collar

The collar plays a central role in the visual balance of an outfit. An Italian collar broadens the shoulders, while an officer collar refines the silhouette. When well-matched to the face and outfit, the collar enhances posture and highlights natural elegance.


4. Which collar best matches your clothing style?

French collar for elegant ceremony
officer collar
Buttoned American collar
American collar
Italian collar with tie
Italian collar

The collar style reflects your personality:

  • For a formal look: French or Italian collar.
  • For a modern look: officer collar.
  • For elegant casual wear: American collar.

Collar choice also depends on the occasion:

  • For a business meeting: French or Italian collar.
  • For a dinner with friends: officer or American collar, worn without a tie.
  • For a ceremony: French or Italian collar.

French collar with tie for a wedding
French collar
Italian collar with tie - elegant look
Italian collar

Which collar to wear with a tie or bow tie?

Not all collars are suitable for formal accessories:

  • French collar: versatile, fits well with a slim tie or bow tie.
  • Italian collar: ideal for wide ties.
  • American collar: usually worn without a tie.
  • Officer collar: designed to be worn without accessories.

5. The perfect collars for formal shirts

shirt collar with suit

When choosing a formal shirt, collar selection is key:

  • French collar: discreet and elegant, perfect with a three-piece suit.
  • Italian collar: enhances formal outfits.
  • Officer collar: for a contemporary ceremony, offers a refined alternative.